bump + baby recommendations! 

Here's a big bunch of info I put together to hopefully help out pregnant friends, and also to have it in one place in case I forget it and need the info for my next kid! A lot of it is shopping, but some of it is also tips. Tips that have helped me through long nights and tearful afternoons, leaving me so grateful for the community of mamas I already have, just three months in. 

Big hugs,

Ana


 

 
Congratulations on your baby!!
 
Boob Stuff
 

SHOPPING
 
Breastmilk storage bagLansinoh bags are the best. They were recommended to me by every listicle I read, and for good reason. Lay them flat initially so they freeze like bricks, then store them upright!

http://amzn.to/2xHVlMU
 
Pump: Spectra S1. I have the Spectra S2. The S1 and S2 are identical, only the S1 can operate on its battery, and the Spectra S2 can't. (A feature I wish I had!) Often Insurance will cover the S2, and some insurances will let you pay extra to upgrade to the S1. 

https://amzn.to/2KwvkBV
 
Bottles: All babies are different. I started with the Comotomo bottles, which I loved for easy-cleaning and cute shape, but my baby ended up preferring the Munchkin Latch line I think because she has a mild tongue tie and the nipples are really flexible on the Latch bottle. A lot of my friends' babies love the Mimijumi line, which are great-looking and have a cool angle to the nipple ostensibly for easy air-bubble-free-feeding thus less gas!

https://amzn.to/2Ms5Jvm
 
Bottle cleanser on the goMedela wipes. Can't hurt to have. I was very germaphobic in the beginning, so if you feel this way, allow yourself to feel it. Time will calm you down. 
https://amzn.to/2vmCvHO


Bottle brush: I love this OXO one. It has its own stand, so that you can set it apart from whatever brush you have near your sink to wash food dishes. I wanted two different ones, to keep germs away from baby (see germaphobe reference above!) 

https://amzn.to/2M4HkPF
 
Drying rack: This grass one by Boon. You think you don't need one of these but you totally do. 

https://amzn.to/2vnr3ff
 
Pacifier: My kid doesn't take a pacifier, but my mom friend group seems evenly split between Phillips Avent Soothie (for newborns) and the Mam brand. Buy a couple of each to see which one (if any) your baby prefers! 
 
Nursing bras: If you have big boobies (recently, anyway!) I love this Cake one the best, second runner up this Bravado one. For a "real bra" experience (aka, boobs that aren't as low as your belly button) you may want an underwire version. This Wacoal one is the best one I tried. 

https://www.wacoal-america.com/underwire-t-shirt-nursing-bra-wacoal-859221-p.html
 
Diapers and changing-related gear
Changing pad: Keekaroo. I’m not exactly sure why I like this pad so much but it’s squishy and peanut-shaped. I randomly liked it so much that I bought one in addition to one I got from my registry.
http://amzn.to/2xHCixn
 
Wipes dispenser: OXO. At first, I scoffed “why do I need a dispenser for wipes? Why can’t I just use the original packaging?” Well, for some reason when you pull one wipe, like 30 come out. The weighted plate on this dispenser prevents that. A note on heated wipes dispensers: I never used these because I figured I couldn’t use them everywhere. And if your baby’s bottom is used to warm wipes and she gets really angry on, say, an airplane because the wipes aren’t heated… I just chose to not warm wipes, period, and both my kids seem normal enough.
http://amzn.to/2gHfEPY
 
Diaper rash cream: Triple Paste AF. Not sure what the AF stands for, but it always makes me chuckle. Best way to prevent diaper rash is to change poopy diapers ASAP, especially if the kids are on antibiotics. I think antibiotics kill all the good bacteria in poo and almost ALWAYS causes rashes for my kiddos. If your baby ever gets a really bad case of diaper rash, btw, ask your doctor about Vusion. It always has worked wonders for us.
http://amzn.to/2xHHRf8
 
Diapers: I typically used Honest Company diapers or Earth’s Best. Earth’s Bestare literally exactly the same as Pampers Swaddlers except they are not crazy-scented and they don’t have the pee stripe. But you don’t really need the pee stripe because you can feel from how expanded the diaper is whether it’s full of pee. Note: don’t buy too many size N, I usually suggest skipping right to size 1.
http://amzn.to/2yqqEud
 
Wipes: Huggie’s fragrance-free. I don’t like using overly scented products and these wipes are basic (in a good way).
http://amzn.to/2zqui5Q
 
Diaper pail: Ubbi. Seal in that stink!! Although baby poop doesn’t really smell until they start solids, IMHO. Note: no need to spend extra money on garbage bags for these, just use regular bags. And if you live in NYC btw I don’t know if you really need a diaper pail… I would just send Tom out to toss them on the street corner!
http://amzn.to/2yqzsjU
 
Baby sleep
Swaddle: The Ollie World. This was the ONLY swaddle that worked for Tao and I really think the creator deserves a genius grant. If you use the code EvaChen212 when you check out, you save shipping and they donate money to charity (we’ve done Houston Diaper Bank and next up is Puerto Rico rebuilding).
https://theollieworld.com/
 
Sound machine: Project Nursery. What you DON’T want is a sound machine that turns off after twenty minutes. This Project Nursery one stays on and has a projection thing so that when your baby wakes up at 545 AM you can turn it on and buy twenty more minutes of dozing while they stare at the projection.
http://amzn.to/2ypUQ8P
 
Dockatot: Yes!!! I didn’t get why people were obsessed with these pillows until I got one as a gift. Something about the way it sags is comforting for babies, I think. We upgraded to the larger size when Tao was about 5 months because he is so darn tall! I would suggest getting an extra cover for it in case of spit-up (or other bodily substances).
Dockatot.com
 
Leahco Podster: We got one as a gift and in the early days, before the baby could move, it was great for parking the kiddo and daytime naps. As with the Dockatot, it has a sort of cocoon effect that babies seem to find soothing. Note: Tao only used this for about 4 weeks though because he was so long.
http://amzn.to/2yNtFq9
 
Bassinet: for techies and people who are, like, fans of Tesla, you will love the Snoo. It is sleek. It is gorgeous. It is very effective for most of the parents I talked to. When you call customer service, Dr Harvey Karp sometimes will be on the phone (!!!. He is like the Oprah of pediatricians, fyi). The classic version of the bassinet is the Fisher Price Rock and Play.  
https://www.happiestbaby.com/pages/snoo
http://amzn.to/2zroVTe
 
Crib: Kalon Studios. This was our big splurge for Ren and, man, it is a beautiful crib and I love looking at it every day. FYI babies don’t generally sleep in the crib until they’re a little bigger, so don’t rush on buying one!
https://kalonstudios.com/shop/caravan-crib/
 
Compact Crib: Bloom. Tao was in our bedroom for a while and we needed a non-full-sized crib. The Alma Papa from Bloom is great bc it’s just the right size and also folds down for storage/transport.
https://usa.bloombaby.com/collections/cribs/products/alma-papa
 
Learning to crawl/walk/move
Best toy: Skip Hop Bee: This toy basically taught Tao how to crawl!
http://amzn.to/2xHNNVq
 
Floor tiles: Little Nomad: definitely the least offensive/most stylish foam mats. Because do you really need the alphabet in primary colors in your living room? No, no you do not. Use the code EvaChen212 when you check out and they’ll donate $10 to charity.
www.little-nomad.com
 
Scooter: Joovy Spoon. Both of our kids were insanely active and wanted to walk before they could even crawl. Once they were about 7 months, I tried out this scooter and they loved it! They would follow me around everywhere. We’d also stick a bunch of toys on it and use it as an activity center. I like that it folds down too.
http://amzn.to/2gXc7NK
 
Toy to stick on Joovy: Sassy Wonder Wheel. “Sassy Wonder Wheel”. The name says it all, lol. Basically this is a happy rattly ferris wheel.
http://amzn.to/2gWYfmA
 
Stroller & stuff
Stroller pouch: Skip Hop. Some of them are inexplicably massive. You don’t need something massive because you’ll have space under the stroller. This is big enough for the essentials and has a little zip pocket in front for cash/cards.
http://amzn.to/2zaZi93
 
Strollers are very personal and there are as many varieties as cars.
For one kid/NYC, I’d recommend the BabyZen Yoyo. You can fold it up and carry it on because it’s so compact. The only con is that there isn’t much space under the stroller for storage. They also make a version nowadays with a bassinet.
http://amzn.to/2zbEgr5
For our double stroller, we have the Uppababy Vista with the second Rumbleseat. This is the stroller I push when I have a ton of errands to run because you can basically fit an entire grocery run under it! Pushing the two kids around is like 75 lbs! Well, it counts as a workout. Make sure you get the adaptors and to check the year/model of your Vista for the Rumbleseat.
http://amzn.to/2zqisc7
 
Stroller hooks: These are great because they rotate but don’t put, like, a sixty lb bag of groceries on it because it’s plastic and it will break! (Throw that bag of groceries under your stroller, duh)
http://amzn.to/2xI1bZL
 
Changing bag: Skiphop. A lot of people ask me what I use for a diaper bag and the reality is that I just used my regular bags but threw this Skiphop thing in there.
http://amzn.to/2xHeezn
 
Solids
Oatmeal: Happy Baby. Tao cannot get enough of this! He’ll dive towards me to get more! I usually mix in some applesauce, sweet potato, or other purees. I like that it contains probiotics for, urhm, regularity.
http://amzn.to/2zsLfwG
 
Beaba: I got a Beaba as a gift for Ren and it made making baby food super easy! It’s a blender and steamer thingy in one. Sure, you could steam separately and then use a Ninja (or whatever it’s called) but this made making food for Ren idiot-proof. There’s also a new service called Raised Real that basically sends you a Beaba-esque machine AND pre-assembled, gourmet frozen food packs. Now, THAT is idiotproof!!
http://amzn.to/2yFEOrw
 
Spoons: Beaba. These are super rubber and less hard, so if a baby lunges toward you (Tao was particularly lunge-y) it’s less risk of hurting them!
http://amzn.to/2zr0S7L
 
Feeding Bibs: Baby Bjorn. You can pop these into the dishwasher and they were harder for Tao to rip off.
http://amzn.to/2gB5yTY
 
Mesh food pouch thing: Munchkin. Great for when they’re teething. I put a slice of apple in there and Tao can gnaw away at it without fear of choking.
http://amzn.to/2zqoV6Q
 
Daily Bibs: Mati Mati or Copper Pearl. Style-wise, I like these bibs that aren’t like “hey, I drool! Look at me!” and they also seem to absorb more because of the fleece, so you don’t end up with a sodden onesie.
http://amzn.to/2zbWJDG
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High chair: Stokke Steps. We like this one because you can start with the baby in the bouncer attachment, then graduate to the regular high chair, and now Ren is in the toddler version of the seat. It’s easy           on the eyes too.
http://amzn.to/2xHmCz3
 
Child-proofing
Corners: You don’t really need these until they’re mobile to be honest!
http://amzn.to/2yLFi0F
 
ETC
Baby carrier: Everyone has a personal preference, like strollers, but Tao liked/slept best in the Artipoppe sling when he was little (plus the fabrics are beautiful) and generally we use the Mia Mily which sort of has a ledge for baby to sit on which I feel like is more comfortable.
https://shop.artipoppe.com/
http://amzn.to/2zqiErR
 
Best teether(s): Plural because you’ll need more than one because your baby will be flinging these to the ground like it’s his/her job.
Elephant: Tao’s favorite! http://amzn.to/2yqI7mD
Banana toothbrush: Tao’s second favorite! http://amzn.to/2zd8qtT
Sophie the Giraffe: You will probably get at least two of these as gifts though! http://amzn.to/2zqoV6Q
 
Nail scissors: Frida. Uniquely shaped so they won’t nick skin as easily. Although I still am scared every time I clip Ren and Tao’s nails!! They are just so teeny tiny ☺
http://amzn.to/2yqJXUu
 
Gas drops: Little Remedies. For both Ren and Tao, we used these drops after feeds if we suspected they swallowed a lot of gas (like if they drank too quickly). These work by consolidating all the little burps or farts into one GIANT burp/fart. Yas! Gas, btw, is one of those things you will become very excited about as a mom.
http://amzn.to/2zbNlAf
 
Colic drops: Colic-calm. I pray that you don’t end up with a colicky kid but Tao had a bout of it and this stuff was recommended to me by a few IG followers and it really helped. Warning: it stains things black (because of the charcoal).
http://amzn.to/2zqpIok
 
Probiotics: Mommy’s Bliss plus D. Probiotics really helped with Tao’s colic too. Probiotics are just good, period. And you have to supplement with vitamin D in the early months anyway, so this kills two birds with one stone. I prefer these to the Gerber Soothe drops.
http://amzn.to/2xITSpK
 
Snot sucker: Nose Frida. Sigh. Just get it. You’ll need it. And it’s not as gross as it sounds. After you’ve given birth, you will not think it’s that bad.
http://amzn.to/2xHIhY2
 
Bouncer: Summer Infant portable bouncer. I bought this used on a mom’s group and it was such a great surprise. It folds down so if, say, you were to have a dinner party (lol we haven’t entertained since having Ren like 3 years ago) you could fold it up and stick it in your closet.
http://amzn.to/2grVk4K
 
Walker: V-Tech. Fact: the brighter/more garish the item, the more your child will like it. Just give into the Garish. This walker blinks, there is a song about a Learning Zoo, and it’s generally annoying. But the kids love it.
http://amzn.to/2gY0t4Y
 
Swing: Fisher Price. This literally took up half our apartment but was so helpful in the early, early months. Ren really responded to the swinging motion, Tao not as much. I have a theory that kids are either bouncers (Tao) or swingers (Ren) in terms of the motion they respond to. Figure out which one they like and then roll with it. On that note, if you don’t have an exercise ball, that is helpful for the bounce-friendly babies.
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Alright! That's it for now. More to come!
Thanks for reading and hope this is helpful!

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